The Best Prostate Massagers for Men in 2020

By Blake Parker
The Best Prostate Massagers for Men in 2020
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Massaging the p-spot is a normal and healthy way to increase your sexual health while enjoying extremely intense orgasms at the same time. The practice, which can be performed with a bare hand or a specially crafted sex toy, has been around for a very long time, with ancient Asian countries busy milking the prostate long before Western cultures even knew what it was. Back in the day, guys would ask clergy and/or physicians to stimulate their prostate glands because they thought it would increase their virility. Whether it worked or not is still debatable, but one thing is and always has been blatantly obvious: Men enjoy having their p-spots played with and the sex toy industry has responded in kind.

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Thanks to the increased demand, we now have an increased supply as well. However, with the influx in options comes far too many prostate massagers for the average man to judge. Fortunately, a few of those devices have clawed their way to the top by having generally desirable features, user-friendly components and the kinds of pleasure settings that a vast majority of men can enjoy. Without further ado, these are those devices:

#1 The Autoblow Prostate Pulse

Best for Comfort Keepers

The Autoblow Prostate Pulse

The Autoblow Prostate Pulse may be a beast but that doesn’t mean it can’t be tender. Its silky-smooth covering is only the tip of the iceberg; its dimensions are only half the story. With two of the most powerful micro-motors available on the market, this little machine packs more punch than meets the eye. It features a wireless remote that lets either partner be in control of the fun, plus it replays 9 different vibration sequences at the touch of a button. Ergonomic and elegant, the Pulse Prostate Massager is also fully flexible to provide optimal comfort and maximum p-spot stimulation.

The party continues with the dual pivot points on the insertable shaft, both of which allow for significant contact and control during manual and/or assisted masturbation. There’s even a thick, textured pad designed to tickle your taint despite the position you’re in, and the fun doesn’t stop until you run out of battery life more than 2 hours later. The bastard won’t work while it’s juicing back up but bitches better watch out when it’s all done. You can take this beautiful beast into the bath or shower, it’s perfect for traveling, and it’s quieter than a mouse fart so nobody ever has to know about your dirty little secret.

Pros:
  • Wireless remote comes with battery installed
  • Arrives charged for immediate use
  • Creatively unique vibe sequences
  • Body-friendly dimensions
  • Made from durable, non-porous, skin-safe materials
Cons:
  • Does not include storage

#2 The Autoblow Prostate Blast

Best for an O-Face Overdrive

The Autoblow Prostate Blast

We all love a blast from the past, but what about one from the future? This futuristic fucker features the latest micro-motor technology and it pushes the envelope on everything we think we know about p-spot stimulation. The Autoblow Prostate Blast is a compact, lightweight massager comes with a wireless remote control for more intuitive and inclusive play. It also comes with 9 distinct vibration sequences pre-programmed into its brain, so experiencing effortless pleasure has never been easier than it is right now. Each sequence manually increases in intensity until either you get off or take it out, but since it’s 100% waterproof I seriously doubt the latter will ever happen.

This sexy silicone stimulator is ten steps ahead of the current competition, with a connected penis ring and balls separator for enhanced roleplay options and better ejaculation management. The sleek yet bulbous shaft is fully flexible and textured in just the right places for maximum stimulation, and thanks to the innovative design of the device itself, gentle vibes can be felt pulsating through the ball separator and penis ring when the machine is on high speed. Perhaps best of all is the fact that you can use this bastard right alongside the brand’s high-tech A.I. Stroker but even if you don’t, the orgasms are just as insane.

Pros:
  • Ideal for beginners and pros alike
  • Creatively unique vibe sequences
  • Arrives charged for immediate use
  • Accomodates most penis/ball sizes
  • Made from durable, non-porous, skin-safe materials
Cons:
  • Does not come with storage

#3 The LELO Hugo

Best for Prostate Pros

The LELO Hugo

The LELO brand is known worldwide for producing some of the most luxurious pleasure products known to mankind. Their devices typically work in unison with one another as well, making them a household name for kinky couples around the globe. Their male-oriented Hugo prostate massager is yet another of their impressive sex toys for men. And while it may seem intimidating to newbies, this high-end pleasure product provides the convenient functionality of an ergonomic sex toy while also serving up intense sensations in a fully customizable way. Best of all, its finely tuned motor delivers waves of direct stimulation to the p-spot via a completely rechargeable USB-powered battery – making it an extremely versatile tool for on-the-go orgasms.

Lightweight and portable, the LELO Hugo is covered in a silky-smooth silicone that’s compatible with all skin types and any water-based lube you own. When wielded by skilled hands, this dual-pronged plaything can stimulate the prostate and perineum simultaneously. Plus, its measurements cancel out the overwhelming first impression – 5.5 inches in total insertable length with a 4-inch girth to go with it. The toy uses six pre-programmed pleasure settings, by the way, and it comes with a warranty from the manufacturer as well. This means the only risk you take is falling in love and you have to possess a heart first, so no worries there.

Pros:
  • Wireless remote control included for enhanced couple’s play
  • Remote doubles as an external massager
  • Motion sensors for hands-free stimulation
  • Fully submersible in water
  • Made from non-porous, hypoallergenic materials
Cons:
  • Wireless remote requires extra batteries

#4 The Nexus Revo Slim

Best for Sexy Surprises

The Nexus Revo Slim

Known for their high-quality sex toys and their apparent expertise at manufacturing some of the kinkiest things on Earth, the Nexus brand has created several prostate massagers since their company first launched. The predecessor for the Revo Slim was actually featured in a handful of high-brown porn productions, but Slim shouldn’t be overlooked just because it doesn’t have an IMDb account. This pretty little p-spot tickler is designed exclusively for men who enjoy anal masturbation but want more versatility in the way they play. Covered in the same great medical-grade silicone as all their other playthings, the NRS features extra-ergonomic dimensions and a balanced, weighted form to help you achieve superior sensations.

Ideal for beginners thanks to its enhanced, compact size, this bad boy cycles through 34 distinct pleasure mode combinations while it stimulates both the p-spot and perineum simultaneously. And while it doesn’t have all the high-tech motions sensors or compatibility with other toys that some devices have, this little number has a bulbous shaft that rotates in different directions for an extra interesting type of experience so at least there’s that. It measures just under 4 inches in insertable length too, which means it fits people of all experience levels and it’s super easy to hide when you’re done.

Pros:
  • Beginner-friendly, travel-ready dimensions
  • Wireless remote control for enhanced couple’s play
  • USB Rechargeable battery
  • Fully submersible in water (excluding the wireless remote)
  • Made from non-porous, hypoallergenic materials
Cons:
  • Extra batteries required for the wireless remote

#5 The LELO Loki Wave

Best for Deep P-Spot Targeting

The LELO Loki Wave

According to legend, Loki was the ancient Norse god of chaos. Later in his life, Loki set things straight and made order out of the same chaos he created. That little history lesson is what helped me understand why the LELO brand named one of their prostate massagers the Loki Wave. It all makes sense now: This motherfucker is designed to make me lose my senses so I can gain them back again in the end. In other words, the toy in question is supposed to attack your sweet spot with superior accuracy while also sending “waves” of pleasure to all the right places. In short, it’s a battery-powered prostate massager of epic proportions (even though it looks a lot like a dildo).

This upright, handheld p-spot sex toy is made for men but I suppose it can technically be used on women too. Either way, it features the traditional components of a tool used for direct stimulation of the prostate – a curved shape, a tapered head, and a perineum stimulation prong near the ergonomic handle at the bottom. The entire shebang uses the brand’s patented WaveMotion technology to match the motions of the user, it cycles through its 10 preprogrammed pleasure settings that are controlled by the built-in button interface too, and it features a USB rechargeable battery for those lengthy lovemaking sessions as well.

Pros:
  • Unique design for more accurate stimulation
  • Extra-long battery life
  • Fully submersible in water
  • Ergonomic dimensions for better handling
  • Made from non-porous, hypoallergenic materials
Cons:
  • May not be suitable for all experience levels

#6 The WE-Vibe Vector

Best for Bootylicious Couples

The WE-Vibe Vector

In a world filled with products designed to fill a purpose of our own, very few can satisfy two or more people at once. The WE-Vibe brand has been trying to change that since they were first introduced to the market, and their new Vector prostate massager for men is a great example of that. It’s not only an ideal for sex tool for guys who enjoy precision prostate play but it’s also a terrific toy for couples to play around with when things get stale. In fact, it seems to be designed specifically for two lovers to enjoy together, especially considering that wireless 4-button remote control it comes with and all the pleasure settings it offers.

Listen, I’m not about to sit here and tell you that the WE-Vibe Vector is perfect. It might not be the size some people are looking for and it doesn’t have any ridges or texturization on the perineum prong. However, the satiny silicone material glides into the anus like it was always meant to be there and you can experiment with 10 rumbly vibe functions while it’s inside. Everything can be operated via the downloadable WE-Connect smart phone app for long-distance surprises, plus it’s damn near silent when it’s in operation so nobody has to know about you and your partner’s dirty little secret.

Pros:
  • Power alert button for easier playtime management
  • Flexible base for improved comfort and safety
  • USB rechargeable battery
  • Fully submersible in water (excluding the wireless remote)
  • Made from non-porous, hypoallergenic materials
Cons:
  • Extra equipment needed to use the device as intended

#7 The nJoy Pure Fun

Best for Temperature Play

The nJoy Pure Fun

When something is cast out of the highest quality medical-grade stainless steel in the industry and then polished to a gleaming shine, you already know it’s great. Even old pros like me get excited when a new metal p-spot plaything like this gets invented. The nJoy brand is very distinctive in their selection and known for making products like that, with dozens of high-end prostate toys including the Pure Fun in their inventory. The PF is unique despite being made in much the same way as its brothers. The main differences are in its curiously crafted shape and anal-attacking dimensions – AKA, it might not be ideal for beginners.

However, this user-friendly device is the perfect accessory for backdoor temperature teasing because it reacts to heat and cold very, very quickly and conducts those variances in degree with well-balanced accuracy. Ideal for all skin types and compatible with every lube in your cupboard, it may not be the high-tech, couples play toy you were expecting but its bulbous shaft ergonomic finger loop help to enhance the user’s sensations while keeping the device one of the easiest on the market to use, clean and maintain.

Pros:
  • Ergonomic dimensions and features for extreme pleasure and safety
  • Can be used for anal and/or vaginal play
  • Easily warmed or cooled with no extra equipment required
  • Fully submersible in water
  • Made from non-porous, hypoallergenic materials
Cons:
  • May not produce intense enough sensations for some users

#8 The Aneros Helix Syn Trident

Best for Butt Play Beginners

The Aneros Helix Syn Trident

Although it has a weird name and an even stranger form, the Helix Syn by the Aneros brand has a purpose for its curious dimensions. As the world’s very first trident-style p-spot sex toy for men, this three-pronged device is designed to offer superior sensations during anal play while allowing for enhanced handling and safety through its flexible, ergonomic gripper loops. And since function was obviously more important than fashion during the making of this thing, it should come as no surprise to any of us that the AHS also comes wrapped in a thick layer of skin-safe silicone that’s been approved by the FDA.

The super suitable sex toy in question is made to help partners and individuals enjoy intense prostate orgasms without the need for extra features like vibrations, rotations or motion sensors. Low-tech yet still impressive, the angular shape, bulbous shaft and slightly tapered head make it ideal for users of all experience levels. The compact size means it’s perfect for traveling and easy to store, plus it provides the deepest possible penetration due to its refined ergonomics (AKA: the no-holds-barred brass-knuckle-like grip on the bottom of the flexible, flared base).

Pros:
  • Ideal dimensions for beginners
  • Designed to be twisted and turned inside the anus
  • Requires no special equipment or supplies
  • Fully submersible in water
  • Made from non-porous, hypoallergenic materials
Cons:
  • May not be long or wide enough for all users

#9 The Fun Factory Duke

Best for Versatile Pleasures

The Fun Factory Duke

If you classify the Duke as a traditional prostate massager, you’re doing it wrong. This thing is no ordinary sex toy for male anal masturbation. It’s a curvy example of why guys love backdoor play to begin with. First of all, the sleek and sophisticated design looks like it’s made for insertion, while the silky-smooth silicone covering invites the senses on a cool and comfortable pleasure ride. The Fun Factory is known for churning out whimsically useful stuff like this, so I was happy to see that the Duke did not disappoint. On the other hand, I wouldn’t suggest this powerful leader to someone who isn’t familiar with what these kinds of devices are capable of because the ole FFD does not fuck around.

Obviously designed for sexual pleasure and versatility (because it probably won’t work for anything else), this bad boy features two distinctly sized and shaped ends for a mountain of different sensations and it’s powerful 5-speed motor is swaddled in a silky silicone material that makes it ideal for all skin types, lube varieties and cleaning solutions. The built-in single-button control interface on the side lets you quickly scroll through the possible pleasure settings and the whole thing is whisper quiet in its operation while being suitable for long-term wear. The S-shaped form also works wonders in terms to transforming this beast into a sexy couple’s toy, but don’t let me stop you from finding kinky ways of experimenting on your own (because you probably will).

Pros:
  • Removable bullet vibe included for enhanced versatility
  • Specialized ergonomics for maximized pleasure
  • Fully submersible in water
  • USB rechargeable battery
  • Made from non-porous, hypoallergenic materials
Cons:
  • Built-in, push-button control interface somewhat cumbersome

#10 The Lovehoney Desire

Best for Dual Stimulation

The Lovehoney Desire

As one of the industry’s best prostate massagers, especially for curious couples and well-trained individuals, the Desire Luxury by Lovehoney is a master of its craft. Made to maximize p-spot pleasures while promoting togetherness in the bedroom, this high-quality device features a wireless remote control and is designed to be worn for extended periods of time. The L-shaped form means it fits nearly any body type, plus it can be used on male or female bodies as the users prefer. Furthermore, it has a tapered tip for easier insertion and the bulbous shaft increases stimulation during insertion and thrusting as you and/or your partner cycle through the 8 distinct performance settings generated by the powerful, integrated motor. 

It’s not considered number one on the market but that’s likely only due to the fact that it takes an annoyingly long time to charge the battery and has a size that’s kind of intimidating to some. Aside from that though, the mother brand has done a good job of creating a device that’s easy to use and maintain. The silky silicone covering, the ridged perineum stimulation prong, the external massager and the 8-meter range for short-distance play – it’s all a kick ass surprise for any horny man (or woman). There are also 8 different vibration modes to explore and it can be taken along on trips thanks to convenient travel lock feature and relatively compact size.

Pros:
  • Comes with a sturdy carrying case
  • 12 different intensity levels for each pleasure setting
  • USB rechargeable battery
  • Fully submersible in water (excluding the wireless remote)
  • Made from non-porous, hypoallergenic materials
Cons:
  • Extra batteries required for the wireless remote

#11 The OhMiBod Club Vibe 3.OH Hero

Best for Erotic Experimentation

The OhMiBod Club Vibe 3.OH Hero

You probably can’t imagine what it’s like to masturbate with a sex toy that’s ideal for so many different types of activities, so I’ll do my best to describe it. Thankfully, I have the OhmiBod Club Vibe 3.0H Hero to help me out. This little number is a great example of what happens when you combine ingenuity with perversion. With three distinct pleasure modes (which I know isn’t a lot compared to some of these prostate massagers out here), the device generates a powerful enough jingle to ring your bell in more ways than one. That dual-pronged designed makes a big difference too, plus it doesn’t hurt that it’s made out of silky, flexible silicone either.

I should probably mention that this thing comes with a wireless remote control too, although the rudimentary design of the buttons is rather laughable (and sort of annoying). Either way, the additional component makes this device great for couple’s stimulation, plus the tapered tip, lightweight design, and curved shaft tell their own stories. By the way, the Club Hero measures 3.5 inches in insertable length and has a circumference of just under 4 inches so there’s no reason to be afraid. Did I mention that it comes with a satiny drawstring carrying case and features a uniquely shaped perineum/clitoral stimulator? I guess you’ll just have to see all that for yourself.

Pros:
  • Built-in, push-button control interface on the device
  • Compact, travel-friendly ergonomics
  • Ideal for men and/or women
  • USB rechargeable battery
  • Made from non-porous, hypoallergenic materials
Cons:
  • Not waterproof, only splash proof

#12 The Autoblow Colibri

Best for Instant Gratification

The Autoblow Colibri

For as powerful as this thing is, I’m surprised it operates so clandestinely. The whisper quiet Autoblow Colibri is not only extremely discreet but it’s also remarkable powerful and features dimensions that are pleasing to the average man’s body. It uses two of the industry’s highest intensity motors to serve up deep, rumbling vibrations in a sexy sequence of 9. Like its brother, the Autoblow Blast, this bad boy has an attached cock ring and ball loop. However, it’s just a tad bit smaller so it’s therefore more ideal for beginners. At the same time, those special features are extremely stretchy, meaning I can’t tell you not to try fitting inside if you’re wearing enough lube.

The low maintenance silicone material is copied from the device itself to the handheld wireless remote which comes equipped with a pre-installed battery and simple syncing instructions. Everything inside the box besides the USB charger is waterproof too. You ever stimulated your prostate gland with precision while taking a shower before work? I’m not giving life advice here; I’m just saying that “p-spot” and “promotion” both start with the letter “p” – a coincidental collaboration attributed solely to sex toys like the Colibri. Could it be that this machine will bring world peace? Probably not. But at least it will make you cum enough to forget about your problems for a while.

Pros:
  • Accomodates most penis sizes
  • Arrives charged for immediate use
  • Creatively unique vibe sequences
  • Ergonmically designed for beginners and couples
  • Made from durable, non-porous, skin-safe materials
Cons:
  • Does not come with storage

Once upon a time, I knew a guy who purchased the very first prostate massager he got his hands on and the next thing we knew he was in the hospital for a multitude of problems. To this day I can only image how awkward that conversation must have been. “Say doc, do you think you can help me with this butt plug I got stuck in my ass? Also, is there something you can give me for this rash? My name’s Rick, by the way.” I’m just saying, I feel like that sort of thing is completely avoidable, Richard.

Fortunately, this isn’t the kind of thing that happens to everyone. In fact, despite sex-related injuries accounting for a large percentage of this country’s emergency room visits, most of them occur when the patient neglects to use sex toys (not the other way around). The problem seems to be that poor person’s ability to select the right device and I, for one, think that’s bullshit. Here are all the things you need to know if you want to stay in the bedroom and out of the ER.

*NOTE: Prostate milking is perfectly safe and natural, often used by medical professionals to improve male health, and can be enjoyed by anyone with the proper technique.

What Is a Prostate Massager?

A prostate massager, sometimes referred to as a butt plug or a p-spot stimulator, is a type of sex toy designed to be inserted anally and is generally used by men over women (although appropriate for both). These devices can be made out of many different materials, come in a wide variety of shapes and sizes, and typically feature various pleasure settings designed to enhance the user’s experience. Each toy is ergonomically formed to accurately pinpoint the prostate gland inside the anal canal, thereby producing a more robust orgasm (especially when paired with activities like penile masturbation, sensory deprivation, etc.). Sounds fun, right?

Things to Look for

Getting the most bang for your buck when shopping for a new prostate massager requires tons of homework. However, if you don’t know what to learn then your educational efforts will ultimately get wasted. At the end of the day, this is a very subjective and personal purchase. Don’t let manufacturers tell you what to spend your money on. These are the things you should be paying the closest attention to:

  • The Materials
    Because the anal cavity is chalk full of potentially harmful bacteria, even after a proper douching, be sure to select prostate massagers that are made from non-porous materials. Stay away from anything that contains potential allergens too. Parabens, phthalates and latex are generally lumped together as unsavory ingredients over the much purer silicones, TPEs, PVCs and hypoallergenic metals.
  • The Dimensions
    The anal canal is designed to stretch and most p-spot sex toys are tapered for a more comfortable insertion. However, that doesn’t mean it’s a one-size-fits-all game we’re playing here. Start small if you’re a newbie and use plenty of lube either way. Remember, you can always go up in size if you’re unsatisfied with the dimensions but it’s much harder to do that in reverse.
  • The Shape
    Prostate glands are elusive sons of a bitches, laying silently inside all men’s asses yet impossible to find for so many. Pay close attention to the shape/form of the toy you’re considering. Is it ergonomically curved or does it at least look like it can be turned or twisted to track down the prostate? If not, you might want to keep searching for something a little more adaptable to your body familiarity level.
  • The Pleasure Settings
    I don’t know about you, but I still believe variety is the spice of life. With that said, it’s important for everyone to look for prostate massagers with a few different pleasure settings, even if they’re the kind of person who gets excited over the mundane. Your best bet is to choose toys with vibrations, rotations, remote controls, and ridges. Trust me.
  • The Compatibility
    Did you know that fewer and fewer people consider anal play a taboo these days? Do you know what that means? It means there are tons of couples-friendly prostate pleasure products on the market now and nobody will look at you funny if you buy one. My suggestion: go for one with a compatible remote control so you can play naughty with a partner.
  • The Special Features
    Due to the fact that so many people are jumping on the butt play bandwagon, modern-day manufacturers have started developing devices that have crazy awesome capabilities. Don’t be surprised if you come across p-spot toys with downloadable apps to control them via Bluetooth or motion sensing technologies for long-distance play. 

5 Things You Need to Know

Got a few fancy-shmancy prostate playthings in mind but want to make sure you’re getting the one that’s best for you and/or your partner? Good. I can tell you learned from my buddy’s bad luck. Let us have a moment of silence for him as we carefully review the following 5 things everyone needs to know before they make a final decision on a p-spot massager:

  • Skin Type
    Don’t be a tool, consider the skin types involved. Make sure nobody has an allergy to the materials used or, better yet, just use hypoallergenic stuff because these devices aren’t always compatible with condoms.
  • Lube Preference
    Keep in mind that your preference in personal lubrication is important, especially if the lube ingredients aren’t compatible with the toy’s materials. For best results, always use a high-quality water-based anal lubricant with your prostate massagers.
  • Major/Minor Intentions
    Ask yourself these questions to find the device that’s right for you:
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  • Lifestyle Limitations
    Living with other people can be a pain in the ass, literally in this case. Quiet devices are your best bet for cramped quarters and compact playthings get more mileage without being spotted by prying eyes.
  • Budget Boundaries
    Remember, you might have to buy extra stuff to use your device as intended. Things like spare batteries, cleaning supplies, storage containers, and lubricants don’t always come in the box. Stay properly prepared or stay pent-up and penniless. The choice is yours.

FAQ

Q: How do I take care of this kind of toy when it’s not in use?

A: It’s important to note that all prostate massaging sex toys are made uniquely. Always read the care and maintenance instructions included with the device. In general, however, proper cleanliness includes cleaning the toy off after every use then allowing it to dry fully before storing it in a safe and secure place. Many manufacturers offer a limited warranty on their products but you have to register it within 30 days of your purchase for it to be valid. Such warranties can protect against damages and malfunctions but they don’t usually cover device issues caused by negligence.

NOTE: Adequate cleanliness of anal playthings is important because of the bacteria present in the anus. Never share prostate toys without properly washing them first with hot water and a non-abrasive, anti-bacterial soap.

Q: What’s the best way to store my prostate device when I’m done playing with it?

A: Proper storage of any sex toy is of paramount importance but luckily, it’s pretty easy. Look for an included storage container in the box with your device. If you don’t find out, seek shelter in a bedside table or dresser drawer. Always keep your p-spot toys out of the reach of children, away from direct sunlight (especially if they’re made from silicone or metal) and in a cool, dry place that’s free from dust, debris, and/or extreme hot or cold temperatures. Also, unless the device is explicitly marketed as waterproof, do not let it get wet because it may void any warranty attached.

Q: Is it true that p-spot massage, or prostate play, is actually good for my health?

A: Sometimes called “prostate milking,” the practice of stimulating the prostate is very beneficial to a man’s overall wellbeing, not just pleasurable sexually. In fact, men have been engaging in this activity since ancient times, with many modern-day doctors performing prostate “extractions” to help men cope with and/or prevent health problems such as erectile dysfunction and prostate cancer. In general, guys who frequently milk their p-spots are less stressed out, more physically fit, and more mentally stable (not to mention happier too).

Q: How do I bring something like this up to my partner?

A: First of all, your sexual relationship is supposed to be open and honest, and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to incorporate the use of a prostate massager into your relationship whether it’s monogamous, polyamorous, new or old. Sexual wants and needs vary from one partner to another, yet some mutual respect and understand is definitely required. Bringing this sort of thing up to a partner is a delicate matter for many, so always opt for a couples-friendly device at first. Take things as slow as possible and look for something with additional pleasure features to explore together. Keep an open mind, encourage one another, respect hard limits and agree to allowing the other person to stop/start the action as they see fit (at least in the beginning).

Q: How often can I masturbate with a p-spot sex toy without it hurting me, if that’s even possible? Is it?

A: Prostate massagers are not designed to hurt you or your partner, so if it anything bad happens it’s probably the result of misuse or malfunction. Dirty, unkept devices can harbor bacteria that can translate to rashes, infections and other health problems later on. Insufficient lube can cause anal fissures and irreverent toy swapping can lead to disasters we dare not speak about. The good news is that properly wielded p-spot toys are not harmful to a person’s health in any way (quite the contrary actually). The average man can masturbate with his device every single time he has sex and suffer no ill consequences as a result of his obsession as long as he follows all usage directions as they’re provided by the manufacturer.

Q: Am I gay because I enjoy anal masturbation?

A: No, you’re not a homosexual just because you derive pleasure from stimulating a natural gland inside your anus designed to generate dense ejaculate. After all, who wouldn’t want to experience something like that? The fact that you use specially crafted sex toys is a testament to your heteronormative behaviors, so don’t fret. Sexual orientation has nothing to do with any of this despite what pop culture says. It doesn’t matter who or what you find attractive (or repulsive), a backdoor-supported orgasm is a man’s best friend and guys have known about it since the dawn of time. Welcome to the big leagues.

Q: How do I know which size device is right for my body?  

A: Anal masturbation devices come in all shapes and sizes, which often makes picking out the right one difficult. Dimensions are important and they can determine the user’s comfort level and ultimate enjoyment (or lack thereof). As a good rule of thumb, start with small, tapered toys and work your way up from there.

Q: What if I’m new to anal stimulation and I don’t know how to do it right?

A: As with anything in the real world, practice makes perfect. Don’t expect to be an expert at anal stimulation as soon as you begin, and never get to the point where you feel like there’s nothing more to learn (because there always is). As long as you pay attention to the directions provided by the manufacturer and heed any warnings or hints given by your partner (if any), everything should work out swimmingly.

NOTE: As an additional precautionary measure, never fully insert a prostate massager into the anus. Select something with a safety handle for better control over the situation.  

Q: Do I need any special skills or equipment to use one of these sex toys?

A: Anal sex and/or masturbation with a specially designed sex toy is not difficult and doesn’t usually require any particular skills beside perversion. The only thing usually needed is some good water-based anal lube, some sex toy cleaning supplies and a willing asshole. In some cases, you may need to buy spare batteries, storage containers or performance accessories because those things don’t always come in the box. 

Q: How much anal lube do I realistically need when playing with one of these?

A: To be quite honest, yes. You must use a big healthy heap of anal lube when playing with a prostate stimulation device. The human anus is not capable of producing its own lubrication, and too much friction can lead to irritation, extreme pain, infections, injury or worse.

About Blake Parker

Blake Parker makes Ron Jeremy look like Mother Theresa. His honest take on allthings pertaining to pleasure and relationships has made him a household name that’s synonymous with sexuality. Blake’s unique perspective on toys and techniques prepares the mind and body for more than just an incredible orgasm. Hisentertaining sex toy reviews, buyer’s guides, and How-To articles inform consumers of what nobody else will say. His readers demolish emotional/physical strongholds, tear down social taboos, and become more comfortable in their own skin as he and his partner enlighten the world one sex toy at a time. Notoriety isn’t the goal with Blake; satisfaction is.